Emotional Relationship with Animals

Many behaviorists say animals don’t care what we think, but how we feel. If we are angry, they become insecure. If we are relaxed, they feel safe. If we are afraid, they feel it too.

Animals depend on us for healthy survival. Culturally, we are only beginning to grasp what true relationships with animals can reveal — about them, and about parts of ourselves that only they can reflect.

In places like Northern California, veterinary medicine has evolved with remarkable advancements: 24-hour care, MRIs, CT scans, and organic food. Yet amidst this progress, something essential can be lost — the wholeness of the animal, the feeling individual. Treating them like machines distances us from their nature, and from our own.

Despite all our efforts, many animals — and people — still lack emotional relationship. We may sense something missing but can’t name it. This can lead to isolation, frustration, and unresolved behavior. Often we adapt to difficult animals and suppress the relationship — which over time can create resentment.

I’ve always felt most fulfilled simply being with animals. I don’t need them to do anything. My happiest moments are when they’re content. Many of my clients feel the same. The emotions between humans and animals are mostly non-verbal, often beyond words.

By surrendering our thinking, and being open to pure experience, we connect more deeply with our animals. The result? A more complete bond.